When I was younger, a girl named Joanne gave me a good, soumd drubbing. I had it coming, because I had been taunting her like the stupid little sissy that I was. Actually, at that time, I was only dimly aware that I was a sissy. Joanne clarified that matter very enphatically, as you can see.
It took me many years to understand that Joanne was giving me a much-needed lesson. I wish I had learned it at the time.